The absurd idea that God would never give you more than you can handle gives undeserved flattery to the well and acts as a cruel bludgeon to the ill. If God never gives a person more than they can handle, if they ultimately can’t handle it, it must therefore be their failure. People, including children, die from horrible diseases or from murder every day. I shudder to think how many children abused by the Catholic clergy were told this when they began suffering the inevitable, and sometimes fatal, psychological sequelae of abuse.
There is no magical ghost keeping your problems at a manageable level. Some day, you will learn that – unless you die suddenly and lose consciousness before you have the chance to realize your error. If you can handle your problems, that’s fantastic. But it just means you are lucky. The second you use that luck as an excuse to purport to know that my problems are surmountable, you cross the line from benign to malignant arrogance and blase disregard for reality. I can only say: that’s where you’re wrong.